having to explain your queerness over and over again gets tiring
I feel like I talk about it a lot, but it’s also like … being a femme who is currently in a partnership with a man (my dating/boning life has spanned the gender spectrum) means that I read as 100% straight and that my queerness is totally invisible and I am so tired of having to be like ‘No, still totally queer.’
So yeah. Still totally queer. That ain’t changin’.
THIS.
